Prostate Cancer and Mental Health

Every person is different, and not all men diagnosed with prostate cancer have the same experience, thoughts, or feelings. However, some common feelings and concerns may be present.

The prostate gland is critical to a man's sexual function; the possibility and actual diagnosis of prostate cancer can instill fear and anxiety for patients since it threatens their masculinity. Treatment considerations vary, as do their effects on sexual function. It is normal to be scared, angry, or depressed when given this diagnosis. The good news is that prostate cancer is very treatable.

Each patient, together with their partner or family, should try their best to communicate about the diagnosis of prostate cancer, how it makes them feel, what their expectations are, what their fears are, etc. Take the time for you and those you love to become informed.

Above all, become an advocate for your personal healthcare.

Don't be afraid to ask for help.

It is normal to feel helpless, alone, or isolated when you have been diagnosed with prostate cancer.

Consider going to a support group. You will find numerous other men who understand your situation because they have been there themselves.

Bring your partner or a friend as a support person, if you choose. You will be amazed at how much information you can gain from those who have "been there" and by the amount of stress eliminated in the knowledge that others truly do understand. Ask your physician where the prostate cancer support groups are in your area.

The following are some suggestions for helping the men in your life who may have or could have prostate cancer at some point in time:

Keep the lines of communication open. It is easy for someone with a diagnosis of prostate cancer to become depressed, or to be in a state of denial. It is also normal for you to be sad, angry, or in denial of the diagnosis. Open communication is critical during a stressful time like this.

Strengthen your relationship by talking about how you feel.

Educate yourself. Understanding the diagnosis will help you to be supportive and understand what your loved one is going through.

Ask questions. A silly question is only the one not asked. Take notes and put them in your notebook with your medical records. Accompany your partner so that you can both hear what is being said. And, above all, ask questions.

Attend a support group together. Meeting others who have already gone through what you are going through is one of the best ways to alleviate feelings of helplessness and isolation.

Always consult your physician for more information.